how to increase your pick up factor?from fag to fab??
Friday, November 30, 2007 // 4:45 PM
holla girls,i've always wondered why some girls have guys swarming over them and melting on their knees.some even have their eyes stick to these girls like super glue!nah ah sisters,i ain't talkin bout supermodels.i'm talkin bout the girls that aren't that well endowed with beauty(polite enuf?hehe)
so ladies,reach out that notepad and take down these important tips on
HOW TO INCREASE YOUR PICK-UP FACTOR:
1)DRESS UP
Physical attributes aside,guys notice when you look good and most importantly appear confident!taking the effort to dress up will also boost your self-esteem.
asha's warning:appearing confident is feeling good about yourself and knowing that you are good and independant.not appearing snooty,holding heads up high and looking so self-absorbed.
2)RELATE TO HIM
Talk about something you have in common and be open to his ideas.Nice girls don't always finish last.If you're boring the first five mins,dream on to have him still hanging around.
asha's warning:talkin about a topic which you know nuts off like politics and pretend you know it will only make you look like a fool.if he has an interest which you have no knowledge off,say something like "wow!i really didn't realise i've been missing out soo much!i admire the knowledge you have!"
stroke his ego,he won't notice how you suck at that topic.
3)PLAY A LITTLE HARD TO GET
Guys like that bit of mystery.glance over to express interest.walk up to chat if you're feeling sure he's returning the interest but never make yourself to available.
asha's warning:to hard to get is also a huge turn off.he either think you are outa his league or that "you think you're soo pretty?i can get a better babe".not a nice thought rite?guys don't expect us to fall on their feet, it needs a little bit of chasing involved.
ASHA'a ULTIMATE WEAPON:
THA KILLER SMILE!
hell yea girls,the power of a sincere smile can make worlds turn.
maintain subtle eye contact,walk a little front from him,just as when your passing him by,turn your head ever soo slightly resting you chin softly on your shoulders,and smile alluringly!thats definitely gettin him thinkin of you the whole night!
outshine with your personality.everyones different.we ain't cookie cutter girls.so leave that sweet cute pesona far3 away when you step out the house and just be yourself!
love,
asha
(your flirt guru)