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DEAR KINKY AND ELAINE,

BREAKUPS ARE NEVER EASY TO GET OVER WITH. WHATS MORE WHEN YOU THOUGHT THAT HE WAS THE ONE!
I WILL NOT BE AN IDIOT TO JUDGE YOU. IF YOU MUST CRY THEN CRY YOUR HEART OUT. IT WILL MAKE YOU FEEL TONS BETTER WHEN YOU LET THE LOAD GET OFF YOUR SHOULDER. SOMETIMES WE GIRLS PLACE TO HIGH A HOPE ON SOMEONE, WE TEND TO BE DEPENDANT AND RELY ON THAT SOMEONE. AND BY DOING THAT, WE RISK BREAKIN OUR OWN HEARTS. WE GIRLS GIVE OUR ALL-LOVE AND DEDICATION..ONLY HOPING SOMETHING IN RETURN, REAL, SINCERE LOVE.
YEA KINKY, NOBODY WANTS TO BE BETRAYED. FACT IS ALL OF US WILL GO THROUGH IT AT SOME POINT OF TIME IN OUR LIVES.THATS TO MAKE US STRONGER. AND I WANNA LET YOU KNOW THE PURPOSE OF ME WRITIN AND MAKING IT PUBLIC. ITS NOT TO SHAME NOR TO MAKE ME LOOK LIKE A GOOD FRIEND. ITS TO LET YOU KNOW THAT YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY ONES WHO WENT OR ARE GOING THRU TIS. I WENT TRU IT. AND IM PWETTY SURE LOTSA GIRLS OUT DERE WENT TRU IT TO. SWITIE, LEARN TO PICK YOURSELF UP AND TAKE A MOMENT BEFORE MOVING ON. LEAVE HIM AS A MEMORY IN YOUR HEART THAT REMINDS YOU THAT YOU HAVE GROWN STRONGER AND WISER BECAUSE OF HIM...
U BOTH ARE ONE OF THE BRAVEST, PATIENT AND GORGEOUS GIRLS I'VE EVER KNEW OFF...I DUN PRAISE PEOPLE THAT MUCH YOU NOE...HEHEE...TRUST ME THAT YOU DON'T NEED TO LOOK FOR ONE,
HE WIL COME ON HIS OWN...
KINKY...ELAINE....
YEARS OF FRIENDSHIP...I NOE THAT U BOTH KEEP MOST OF YOUR FEARS AND PROBLEMS INSIDE. AND THAT U BOTH ARE REALLY THE PRIVATE TYPE OF PERSON...BUT I KNOW U BOTH TO WELL TO KNOW THAT YOU BOTH ARE HURTIN INSIDE.
I LUV U BOTH AND I WANNA SEE THE BEST IN YOU. I KNOW I'VE NEVER SAID IT..NOR HAVE I SHOWN U BOTH MY CARE AND CONCERN...BUT I TRULY CARE. AND THATS WHY IM WRITIN TO U THOUGH WE DON'T MEET THAT OFTEN ANYMORE.
AT THE END OF THE DAY GIRL, ITS HISS LOSS CUS HE DIDN SEE A GORGEOUS, SMART AND DEDICATED GIRL THAT ONCED LOVED HIM..
LOVE U BABES!!!


BUTTERFLY KISSES,
ASHA YOUR GIRL PAL

hey peeps,
recently me and my bf have been having lil quarrels and misunderstandins that were a lil moreeee...complicated than usual...
its near to 7 months of relationship and da fact is...its startin to sour a lil.AND I DUN WANT IT TO BE THAT WAY!!!ARGH!GOSH!
Yes,without denial..we do get bored with our partners at some point of time...and somehow i always tend to think that i gotta perservere...but when im unhappy in the inside????


soo...i asked some of my friends to help me(credits to all of you!)
and it has made me realise that both me n my bf have alot of catching up to do and understanding...



from HIM to HER
what the boys need from us:

.LOTSA LOVE
.LOTSA SUPPORT
.UNDERSTANDING
.DEDICATION
.HONESTY
.SINCERITY
.LISTENIN EAR
.A FUN AND ENJOYABLE COMPANION
.COMFORT
.WORDS OF ENCOURAGEMENT
.COMPANY

outa all...i tink i scored..about a 5/8....am i fun girlfriend pumpkin?i hope i am...ahakz!

from HIM to HER
what the boys hate about us:

.TO SEE THEIR GIRLFRIENDS OUT WITH OTHER GUYS
.LYING!!!!!!(ALOTTTT OF GUYS GAVE ME TIS REASON,WHAT DO WE LIE ABOUT...I WONDER..........)
.DATES OTHER GUYS
.ALWAYS PICKING FIGHTS AND INSIST BEING THE RIGHT ONE (ENDING UP CRYING,EXPECTIN THE GUY TO GIVE IN WHEN HE'S DONE NUTIN)
.GOES AGAINST HIS DREAMS


my friend has a qn to guyss out dere....
DA QN:
why do guys always associate girls clubbin with girls throwin themselves to guys... when the girls mean nutin and jus wanna have harmless fun????


from HER to HIM
what we need from you...

.LOVE,LOTSA2 THEM...
.SECURITY (funny eh, we will forever feel insecure even when our boyfriends tells us they love us...its just...uncertainty that can sometimes drive a guy crazy!!!!hahaha)
.ATTENTION
.UNDERSTANDING(do u realise that even before we tell our boyfriends our probs and werrys,he'll tell us to stop cryin,and that its a small matter n he understands...when in true fact...we haven told him our probs!)
.LOYALTY
.HONESTY
.TO SHOW!!!AND I MEAN SHOW!!!U LOVE US!!


from HER to HIM
what we dislike and fear...

.CHEATING!!!
.SLEEPING AROUND
.WHEN A BF APPARENTLY TREATS OTHER GIRLS BETTER THAN HIS OWN GIRLFRIEND
.BETRAYAL OF TRUST
.PRETENDING TO LOVE US WHEN UR SOO NOT..ONLY WITH THE EXCUSE THAT U DUN WANNA HURT OUR LIL WEAK HEARTS!!!
.BEING PRESSURISED INTO DOING SOMETHING WE DO NOT WANT TO DO
.DOESN APPREACIATE US FOR WHO WE ARE..ASKIN US TO CHANGE BASED ON HIS PREFERENCE.LIKEEE....TELLIN ME I NEED TO LOSE WEIGHT!
.BEING JUDGEMENTAL(NO MATTER HOW WRONG WE ARE...TELL US ANOTHER DAY...CAUSE WEN WE ARE CRYIN,WE WANNA HEAR THAT WE ARE RIGHT!!)


hmm....soo mabe i didn quite understand what was goin thru his mind...n he didn quite knew how i felt to about the relationship...hey pumpkin....im truly sorry yeah..
I wana let u know that i love you....alot...thanks for takin me on a date...to the zoo!!!sent me those pics ayte...and ya,happy birthday big boy!!!muahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!


lotsa love...
asha your dorfus gorillabutt

p.s:the other dae me and wani wen to town bare faced!and hell yea...it felt great and light!!!and it unleashed a whole lot of confidence...esp when u c the oda girls sweatin like hell and how their makeup melted!!!!u should try...it was a lil scary at first...but yea!!!it fwelt good afta tat,ryte wani!!!!

BEAUTY SECRETS

get the ideal shape!lets play with numbers!!!


A PAGE IN ASHA’S LIFE

“you should start takin care of your weight…you are buldging in all the undesired places…you are fat!FAT!FAT!FAT!”

those words repeated endlessly in my troubled mind.i pondered over those words for quite a while.enough of all the pretence.i feel like tearin that plastic smile and that f***in laugh from my freakin face.my fat face!and then people start to give it in a soo call better term..”you’re chubby” and “you’re cute”…oh hell yea,and u go snickering in your heart that “oh fat ass!”

is it a voice in my head?have I gone mad?or blind?or people are just hidin the fugly truth that im FAT?cause these bloody people are my friends?or boyfriend?because they love me and they don’t wan to hurt my feelings?so does that mean im fat?

“ANSWER ME!”
I demanded.i stared at my reflection upon me.i thought I was normal.
and then I started to morph into this fat ugly me.and I saw a weak heart.a struggling spirit which was dying and fading away.i was losing me!

tears filled up my eyes,as I harass my own body,grabbing those flesh and meat.
I know I wasn’t mad.i wasn’t havin an eating disorder.just what is it?
is it the mentality that all models are gona be wearin double zero?i don’t even know what the fcuk that means..is it cause I eat the wrong stuff?did I binge on my food?did i?or is it cause even your loved ones think that your getting bigger…your hands are flabby and he keeps touchin your tummy as if you were a big baby!

“TELL ME YOU FREAKIN IDIOT!”
I screamed to that fat person I see.that others see..
I was scared.i was really scared to do it.
I reached for the knife,trembling at the same time.
slowly and carefully,I pulled my flesh from my stomach with my left hand and griped the knife on my right hand.i mastered all my courage…

slowly and painfully,I did it…I cut it all off.jus like the butcher at the market.they cut all the FATS off that sheep.
cause they are sooooooooo unhealthy and they make you FAT!
red crimson blood oozed out.
it felt good.damn bloody good.
I managed a smile on my face.

“now they are all wrong!im sooo preeteeyyy….”
I cried,makin my words all muffled up..
oh boy,it hurt like hell,the sight was making me nauseous but it was the feelin of satisfaction and contentment that push any form of regret away.

I lay there,helpless…where did all my friends goo?where did my boyfriend go?where are they…are they still ashamed of me…can they accept me for who I am?....

The kinda slaughterin myself was all made up ayte.but these are my confessions,am tellin you guys that I actually thought of doin that.exactly as I wrote.but I’ve picked
myself up and learnt to be stronger.i ain’t perfect.you ain’t either.soo before u laugh at me and call me stupid.think about ur loved ones,have u given them the same treatment like I received?i don’t blame anyone in this.my friends or my boyfriend.maybe you didn’t realise that it was hurtin deep inside..well yea.this is it..
am still not doin too well right now..still a lil demoralised.still hurt…but oh well,id get ova it..everybody gets influence at some point of time.worst,some fellas do that to jus make you feel ugly cause they envy your beauty…don be like me.it has its consequences.for me,I learnt the hard way.

lotsa love,
asha(still a glamourette inside)
p.s:strictly no usin this for ur compos ya!apreciate originality.no copyqueens please.

got ya guys the perfect fun diet…did my research…enjoy!


1 full scoop of rice

its not wrong to have rice.it is the staple diet for asians.ask any experts, they advise you to take in rice everyday.all you have to do is to limit the amount.Instead, add more vegetables,soup and food that is grilled,baked,steamed or boiled.

2 apples per day

fruits are an important source of protein and fibre.2 apples per day is enough to have sufficient natural fibre and carbo for your body.take a bite around 10 to 12 in the afternoon and another at 3pm.

3 slices of bread

have a quality breakfast that is also healthy.3 slices of bread,without any spreads is strongly advised.drink it with hot cocoa or milk or eat it with oats. The more healthier.

5 minutes of deep breathing

deep breathing stabilises your body.soo why are we always told to take deep breaths?it helps reduce stress and stimulates the blood circulation in your body.to have the ideal shape is to have the ideal lifestlye ladies.

10 minutes of light exercise

do a complete light exercise to slowly warm up your body.start from the head to the feet.remember, just ten minutes.

25 sets of situps

situps help in strenghtening the muscles around ur tummy and it helps reduce the bloatness and the buldge.(and my boyfriend goes,”see I told you…””)get a comfy spot to do it.avoid pushing your shoulders but take your whole body weight and feel the stretch on your tummy.

100m of swimming

swimming is the best sport for slimming down.it burns lotsa fats other than sports such as cycling.arrange your schedule such that you swim twice per week.its enough if you swim 50m to and fro.isn’t that great??

8 glasses of water

it’s a remedy,but it really does work! did you know water actually helps in makin the system in your body work beter?lynne garton,a freelance diet specialist found out that the amount of water that enters a body is not the same for every person.it all depends on their daily physical activities,gender and age of a certain individual.now,that’s why ur suppose to drink 8 glasses of water…

9 steps of stairs

practice this activity.everytime you finish your lunch or dinner,search for the nearest flight of stairs.how?go up and down fast within 10 secs.do 3 sets of it.just nine steps of stairs,not 9 flights ok!

7 pm for dinner

what is the ideal time for dinner?although lotsa peeps out there refuse to each dinner.its a mitos ayte!dinner is GOOD for you,the difference is only the timing.the ideal time is 7pm.this is the time your body is most tired due to the energy used up during the day and sleping time is still a long way to go.atleast eat 2 hours before you sleep to allow it to fully digest.

2 glasses of milk per day

milk is a bestfriend to dieting.its gives you all the protein and calcium.milk only can make you feel full and strengten the struture of your bones.drink one glass in the morning,the other at night. you can finally sleep peacefully.

1 glass of juice

belive me or not,one glass of juice can make you full.therfore,you won’t have to eat that much carbos!

28 days of balanced food diet

28 days of diet,and you will slowly see the results.but it must come with the proper food diet.breakfast with fruits,lunch with soup and 2/3 of veg,fish and potatoes.lastly dinner with high protein such as fish,meat and eggs.

14 glasses of green tea per week

diet expert, Brigid McKevith suggests that we drink green tea everyday.2 glasse per day would be enough.it will throw out all the naughty toxins and it does not contain any calories.it also makes you feel full and prevents you from getting hunger pangfs.doesn’t it help in the process of your diet?

50 sets of skipping

getting the ideal shape ain’t jus about food.it includes exercise that is done with a WHOLE HEART!it has to be consistent and not unplanned and disorganised.the most cheapest way is skipping everyday.do it in the evenings if you are busy in the mornings.its good cause it makes u sweat.sweat is a big sign you are slimming down!yeah!


so gorgeous,ain’t it time to unleash the baribie in you?
ain’t necessary u try it all,jus adopt around 5 ways and see how it goes..would like to hear your results ya.and you can trust me.i didn’t make this all up.its all research and its reliable ayte!



see ya around!
asha

Pimples And Greasy Skin!
HOW GOOD FOOD MAKES GOOD SKIN!

recently a question has been ponderin and lingerin at the back of my mind.

THE QUESTION:
which is a better value of money?products that improve the quality of skin or products that cover it all up?

and this is what I have come up with…did ma research..so feast your mind and think about it…

VERDICT

CLEAR SKIN makes makeup look extra purrfect ladies!
so it is definitely not a waste to splurge n get the ideal healthy skin before splurging on all types of makeup-cum-cover ups.cause expensive makeup will look ’cheap’ if its on skin that’s uneven,oily,and ohh! sooooo full of blemishes!


but,in order to own that ”miracle” skin,it won’t only be based on creams,lotion or vitamins.its gonna be the food we take in.it has to be balanced and healthy and must be eaten since we were little kids to help in getting healthy skin.(but its neva to late to try babes!)


the two most important foods for skin would be vege and fruits(and then I hear u guys moan…hmpf!have some hope,theres a first time to everything)
these foods if eaten fresh,have high contains of fibre,low cholesterol and does not have additional sugar or salt.(isn’t that good to get the purfect body as well!)all these have natural vitamins n minerals that is sooooo sooooo needed for beautiful skin.

HEALTHY SKIN IS ME!
1)the first and foremost the most basic I must say, for smooth skin is, WATER!
even though your foods mite contain water…we are advised to drink the minimal of two litres of h2o to make sure that our skin is healthy and blemish-free.(get ready your water bottles gurls)


2)”cellulose carbohydrate” or food that contains fibre and carbo are also foods that will help in restoring your skin complexion,resultin it in being fair and smooth.(soo,forget your fear of bread,wheat,or rice….go get it gurls)


3)vitamin A is important for replenishin the tissues in your skin.without vitamin A,skin will be dry and lines will apear.to be sure that you get sufficient vitamin A.Add carrots,spinach,brocolli and apricots to ur daily food diet.


4)vitamin C is also as important to produce collagen that will help preserve the elasticity of your skin.and your journey in having ur dream skin is one step closer when your eat more strawberries,citrus fruits like oranges,cabbage,tomatoes and salads.(aren’t the food I mentioned soo colourful!!!)


5)vitamin E is an antioxident that will neutralise the effects of free radicals.these radicals will make skin more vulnerable to be attacked by the “ageing skin” syndrome.yeah,we all will have wrinkles at some point of time,but certainly not right now!to prevent it add nuts such as hazelnuts and wheat.


6)lastly,zinc helps in skin being more firm,stronger and smooth.milk and oats contains zinc…so what are you waitin for???


pale skin?
ANSWER:
increase your iron intake,protein,calcium,copper,cobalt,and vitamin B.
that means, egg yolks,cheese,chicken,fish,rice,potatoes,nuts,oats and bananas.


pimples and zits?
ANSWER:
increase your intake of meat without fats,milk,soya,carrots,apricots,spinach,brocolli.
its a great source of zinc that enables your skin to produce collagen and elastin to firmer skin.


oily skin?
ANSWER:
ur lackin riboflavin.other then washin your face with oil-freee based cleanser and eatin the right supllements,take in more soya,low fat-milk and eggs.it will prevent oil to collect on the surface of your skin.


dry skin?
ANSWER:
more vita A and E.that includes low fat milk,fruits,vege,oats and nuts.vita a firms up ur skin.vita e on the other hand is rich in antioxidents, helpin it in reducing the problem of undesired lines and wrinkles.


AND SOOOO……
there will come a day where makeup ain’t gona be your shadow anymore.you are gonna go out with the true colours of your skin.and when your skin blushes,you know it ain’t cause of the pink blusher…and your eyes sparkle not cause of those contacts.its gona be truly you…
and you will aprreciate it.and others will too.
and ya…and then you gonna say that oh well that’s neva gonna happen…..urghhh!hate this attitude.


theres only one thing I can say to these girls who have a sickenin and iritatin mentality…


nothing comes easy.u want it,go get it.if theres such a thing that’s called “impossible”,u r the one that created it.


hershey kisses,
asha(skin diva)

(for those goin through pimple breakouts now…be patient,with the right diet we’ll fight it…and that goes to me too and my boyfriend.we’ve each grown a pimple on our faces.yipes!!!!)

tight budget?stop whining and lets work it!

and soo,the great singapore sale is cumin !!!
yipeeeee !
rejoice !
but here comes the ugly truth,when its us gurls holdin onto the money….it can go terribly wrong!
we…
overspent.
and sumtymes we splurge on a single thing…only to find we dun have any cash left for other stuff.and heres the by product that comes with it.we start to whine and say the money is never enuff and we don’t have enuff to shop.
every gurl faces that.
temptation.
I get a shoe-gasm when I see paradise of shoesss…
soo fancyy,soo colourful…but won really goo well with the wadrobe.duh!

a friend the oda day boughta a pair of shoes and she
was complainin on how it wasn the perfect fit. i
asked her..
“u didn try it on first?”
“yea,I did…”
“did it fit rite?”
“hehe,noo”
“then why in the world did u buy it?”
“caUSE IT WAS ON SALE ! plus ITS CUTE…” SHE CHUCKLES.

haha! NAH! I CAN’T BLAME HER.WE CAN’T BLAME HER.WE ALL DO That.
I think if I wasn’t a beauty queen,id be a trash collecter…
id have lotsa beauty junks ( psst ,some of them are expired ,but I keep them fer their nice packaging)
warning!!!
keepin expired beauty products cud be spreading tons and tons of bacteria.visualize it,tiny creepy crawlies partying on ur expired makeup!scary.
soo wee shall pledge to throw all unused or expired products! makeup,lotions,perfume…
its disgusting and unhygenic.

I have come up with a list on how much should each catergory’s spenditure be like.making a list before shoppin is a strategic way and benefits us.we don’t buy the wrong stuff and we get what we want most.but,the list alone doesn’t help.comes with discipline.soo are you in or chickenin out?

asha’s shoppin list
budget=$250
100%-->$2.50

1)face and body products
lotion,face masks,toner,mosturizer… 6%($15)
greasy skin and dry palms is a nono for me that’s why its first on my list.
2)undergarments
everybody needs too feel good in the inside.atleast for me.if u have a bigger budget,why not spent a lil more on lingerie.makes u feel sexyy…hehe try la senza,or blush!8%($20)
3)tops/bottoms/dresses
pick your clothes wisely,make sure u have shoes to go Along with it.pick one day clothing,night clothing,beach clothing,sporty clothing,formal clothing40%($100)
4)shoes
stick to neutral colours.eg:white,black,brown,grey
they go with almost anytink.but perhaps u could get one mustard yellow kitten heels or the red wham bang wedges.jus one…ok!12%($30)
5)makeup
yerp,artificial beauty it is.but to cover flaws and those pigmentation marks.it is a must have.geta good foundation that is of your skin type.ask the beauty personnels to help u with it.i jus can’t stand it wen gurls try to look fairer or extremely dark when they are not.and if your compact powder makes your face look grey,its jus soo wrong,throw it..get another one.if ur not into foundation,op for a good compact powder that gives u a natural finish.am wearin body shops compact.its guwd soo far.if u have a bigger bugdet,id suggest mac or bobbi brown.if ur face is blessed wit no scars,skip the makeup.bare is sexy.minimal is wise.16%($40)
6)accessories
witout it you will feel bare.get a few pieces to spice up that “u-thought-it-was-boring” outfit.
recently bought a vintage piece from suite1654 located at far east plaza.
7)bags/handbags
for work and school,get an organised bag that could stuff ur books,papers…I suggest aldo bags.
for goin out,get mini that u can stash your compact,lippie,hp,cash and cards..
u realise that ive not put a budget for num 6 and 7.cause I’m makin it alternate every month.one month accessories,one month handbags.
these way,I can neva go wrong.18%($45)


so the gss starts 25th may…get ur cash ready,fit into a comfy tee and jeans..and ur off!
ok,I think im goin to have a shoegasm now.
(p.s:asha’s shoppin list is only for gss month.its more expensive when they are no sales)

asha makes wonders
its always been about ourselves,why not…do your part in savin the world.get a shoppin bag.say no to extra packaging and paper bags.oh yea,they are nice…but 10 years down the road
ur childrenwill be wearin nutin to school cause all tress are gone.i’ve done my part,have you?

important information!
70% of ladies will suffer osteoarthritis on their feet when their age reaches around 60.why? its because most women and girls just love forcing their feet into shoes which is not their perfect size and fit. do not force your feet in and let it suffer in silence. to avoid it and still be all soooooo glamourous, you can ask the shop assistants to actually make the size slightly larger (some shops provide this service, don wery, they aren’t gna bite your shoe off…they have the right tools..) .this will make it more comfortable and your feet would also be healthy.

spread the love,
asha(shopping glamourette)
muah!

♥asha
♥age 17
♥aspiring fashionista
♥dreams of opening fashion police academy
♥looks up to ashley isham
♥with perserverance,almost anything is possible

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