Asha

SEXAYEEE LINGERIE SHOPPING..A GURL'S ULTIMATE SURVIVAL GUIDE!

Monday, July 30, 2007 // 4:23 PM

Always thought lingerie shopping only belonged to those who were married or attached?
SOOOOO NOT ladies!im gonna show you how and why....
first and for most...
it doesn't realli matter if you don't have anybody to flaunt your lingerie to or whether you need to have a boyfriend or tha ultimate body or booty...
ALL IT TAKES IS SELF APPRECIATION AND LOVE TOWARDS YOURSELF AND YOUR BODY.
Think of it as,self indulgence..like if you can spent a few thousands on stuff with labels just to show-off,why not splurge on lingerie once in a while to make you feel good about yourself and boosting your self esteem(face it girls,even major hollywood stars lack self esteem,thats when botox and surgeries come in handy)

i went lingerie shopping with ema the other day,and i've gathered some tips on how to get the lingerie which you won't regret later on...ema mentioned that it was her first time...and i realised it might be soo too for others..so step out ladies.WE ARE GOIN SHOPPING!!!!!:):):)

LETS GET SEXAYE LADIESSS
tip no 1
do your research
lets get to the basics,
firstly,you need to know your favourite colours and the type of lingerie you prefer.some of us absolutely love garters,lacey panties and push up bras whereas some would rather go for that sweet babydoll flirty dresses with furry slippers??my personal preference?actually a little bit of both.ahahaha.
example:
fav colour:baby pink
preference:sweet and flirty lingerie
CHECK!

tip no 2
ask you,yourself and just you!
you spotted a sexaye model wearin a black leather corset in the mags and you wish that it was you.reality check,are you really willing to wear it?
or are you turning your wadrobe into a costume shop?take my advice,some lingerie are to ridiculous to wear.and unless you're making a porn video,neva ever step into a sex shop to buy lingerie.
also,are you uncomfortable with wearin to little clothes at night or at home??even when theres nobody?you might want to get a silk robe or wrap along with the underwear just in case you need to get something from the kitchen and your next door neighbour is lazin by his kitchen window.undesirable situation.
example:
black leather corsets:NONONO
silk robe/wrap:might come in handy
CHECK!

tip no 3
know your size,and your type
estimate your underwear size,if u suck at estimation,bring along one of you comfortable panties(in good condition of course)to see if it is the right fit.and ya,based on experience.keep your panty u brought from home safe in a small bag.you wouldn't want it hanging like a keychain without you knowing.do not depend on sizes s,m,l...cause different labels carry different measurements.some are measurements of europeans which are naturally bigger than us.and please stop thinkin that xxs or xs is the ideal size for you.unless you're really small.must i emphasise on this?CURVES ARE GREAT.BIG BOOTY?THINK BEYONCE!
Know your bra cup size.measure it if you must to.if you are unsure get ur mum or the sales assistant to assist you.never insist on somthing to small or to big.it is unhealthy for your breasts.if you are trying on a bra,see at the sides on whether there is excess flesh seeping out,that means its to small.if your tootsies hang low and gives minimal support,it might be to big.
lastly,know your body type.though we wished that we all looked like a victorias secret model,all of us come in different shapes and sizes.some of us are pear shape,petitie,masculine,thin and a little flabby at the tummy.it is OK!besides,all those models you see in those mags,their pictures are air-brushed.
so the rule here is.
BUY ITEMS THAT ENCHANCE YOUR FIGURE NOT ITEMS YOU WISHED YOU LOOKED GOOD IN IT.
example:
underwear size:bring my fav undie along!
bra cup size:34c
body type:a little meaty all over
lingerie should be able:to hide a little of that unecessary flesh,a slimmer contour.
CHECK!

tip no 4
shoppin like theres no tomorrow
now that you know your basics,we can hit the malls with no slightest worry.overcome your shyness or fear that the sales girls would laugh at you.they know why we buy lingerie.even young girls like us.
as you browse and scan through the items in the shop.you come to a realisation that lingerie could be heavy on your pocket.but ladies,don't walk out of the shop yet,think how it would help you feel good when your'e having a bad day.or when you suddenly wake up in the morning feeling sexy and free?dancing in your living room in sexy lingerie!
while some of us would go astray on buying what looks hot!...id rather you stick to your list and spare a thought on your body wearin that super tight leather bustier with pantyhose.you be sweaty and smelly just 5 mins after putting it on.
the trick is.the more comfortable the lingerie,the sexier you feel.try opting for softer fabrics instead like satin,silk n expensive laces. touch the fabrics of the peice you are considering.anything to UNCOMFORTABLE is a NONO.
though some materials may look sexy...they might be scratchy to your skin.still sexy??no!leather might look sexy,but singapore is a tropical country and if its not bad enough,we are living in the global warming crisis..PONDER!

tip no 5
if all else fails and asha's tips suck!
go online.lotsa brands sell sexy lingerie.trust my fashion taste.
victoria's secret is affordable...
agent provocateur if ur a rich kid...
but my ultimate advice is,step out of the cocoon dear,all of us deserves to
feel sexy.its not weird.if your galfrens tease you,don't be alarmed that they're be your follower in just....a few moments.:)

really hope that you're unleashing tha sexaye you by now,
if you're clueless on where to get tasteful lingerie.for starters, try blush or la senza which is located at paragon.la senza is having their clearance seasonal sale.or try fling at the heeren..
GOOD LUCK BABES!

tons of sexaye kisses,
asha(mysteriously sexayeee)
(n still mysterious.....)

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EVIL JUNK FOOD TAKES CONTROL.IT NEEDS TO STOP!

Thursday, July 26, 2007 // 6:45 PM

ALOSSSSSSS PRETTY LADIES!FEELING STRESSS,AND BINGING ON ALL THE UNECESSARY FOOD AND THE UNECESSARY BULGE?
CERTINLY NOT A GOOD EXCUSE TO ME DARLA!
NOW SWEAR UPON THIS!THEY ARE ENEMIES IN DISGUISE!ENEMY!ENEMY!
THIS HAS TO COME TO A STOP.
IVE COME OUT WITH SOME TIPS....FEAST!

HOW DO WE ESCAPE FROM THE EVIL JUNKIE MONSTER!!!!!

1)EXCERCISE
HELPS MAKE U FEEL BLISS AND PRODUCES ENDORFINS,HORMONES THAT RELAXES YOU,RATHER THEN A BAR OF CHOC WHICH ALSO CONTAINS ENDORFINS PLUS TONSSA CALORIES!!!!PICK UR PICK!

2)MINIMISING THE INTAKE
STOPPING SUDDENLY MITE BE TO DRASTIC.BUT ITS NEVER IMPOSSIBLE.
IF U CAN'T RESISIT THE PLATE OF CHIPS,GET A smaller SERVING OF CHIPS.FAIR ENUF?IF UR STILL HUNGRY,REPLACE IT WITH NUTS OR FRUITS!

3)BREAKFAST
NOW HOW MANY TYMES HAV OUR MUMMIES EMPHASISE ON BREAKFAST!
A GOOD BREAKFAST CONTAINS THE SUFFICIENT AMOUNT OF CARBOHYDRATES N RICH IN PROTEIN.IT WILL HELP SUSTAIN UR HUNGER PANGS AND CRAVINGS.UR FIRST STEP TO SUCCESS!

4)INDULGE ON THE EX
CUS IF U FEEL TORTURED AND THAT YUOR POCKET'S BURNT, YOU HAVE A HIGH CHANCE TO STOP BUYING IT AND CRAVIN FOR IT.TADDAAA!ITS LIKE A MIND GAME THAT COMES BACK TOM YOU.TRY GODDIVA,CHOCZ...WATEVA.HAHAHA!

5)MANTAIN UR BLOOD SUGAR
BLOOD SUGAR THAT IS STABLE WILL MINIMISE UR HUNGER PANGS.EAT OFTEN.MY SECRECT IS,EAT OFTEN,IN SMALL SERVINGS

6)SUPLEMENT
IF UR BODY IS LACKING ALL THE NORMAL STUFF U NEED LIKE CARBO AND ALL,UR BODY WILL AUTOMATICALLY GIVE A SIGNAL TO YOUR BRAIN TO DO SOMETINK,LIKE.... EATING.TAKE MULTI VITAMINS,CUS ITS THE BEST SOLUTION.BUT REMEMBER,CONSULT UR DOCS OR A PHARMIST FIRST,CUS CERTAIN VITAS MITE N MITE NOT BE SUITABLE FOR YOU.

ASHA'S EXCHANGE AND REFUND POLICY
THAT MONSTA! VS ASHA SAY'S
ICECREAM LOW FAT YOGURT OR ICE CREAM

SOFTIES MINERAL WATER,FRESH JUICES,LEMONADES
FRUIT JUICE

DOUGNUTS AND PASTRIES WHEAT BREAD WITH JAM(TOASTED)

CAKE PUMPKIN BREAD OR CHIFFON CAKE
WIT FRESH BERRIES

SWEETENED OATS AND CEREAL OATS WITH A DASH OF BROWN SUGAR
AND CINAMMON

SOUR CREAM NON FAT YOGURT/SOURCREAM

CHOCOLATE HOT COCOA WITOUT FAT,ADD RAISINS
DRIED FRUITS,NUTS AND A DASH
CHOCOLATE CHIPS

SWEET BISCUITS TRY GRAHAM OR JULIES BISCUITS,ADD
SMALL CUT BANANA SLICES IN BETWEEN

CHEESECAKE OR MOUSE A SMALL SLICE OF CHEESE WITH
VANILLA PUDDING OR WHEAT BISCUITS

HOPE U FIND MY TIPS USEFUL,JUNK FOOD AIN'T THAT BAD IF THEY'RE CONSUME ONCE OR TWICE A WEEK.JUS REMEMBER NOT TO INDULGE INTO IT TILL IT BECOMES UR DAILY DIET.TILL NOW,SNICKERS AND CADBURY IS TILL IN MY LIST.
WITH FULL ANTICIPATION AND DETERMINATION.
DIET STARTS TOMORROW.FOR GOOD....
I HOPE...
HEHEHEHEHEHEHEHE

HERSHEY SMOOCHIESSSSSSS!!!
LOVE,
ASHA-CHOC ADDICT IN REHAB.
TOODLES BABES!

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// 5:58 PM

CLIQUES…r u one of ‘them’???

was I in a clique ever in my life?oh well,I ain’t sure whether it was to be considered a clique or what so eva…but I gues there were times occasionally where they were copycats in the group and everybody had kinda same mentality…well,all that were way back during lower secondary days where we were kinda afraid that we were going to be left out and we just wanted to belong n be liked.i guess cliques or being in a large group of popular girls gave me sense of security.
in my case,being in one kinda made me feel “beautiful” cus trust me, my friends were gorgeous n guys were just diggin them at school…whereas me..i was the normal average nerd girl that carried a big bag with huge ugly paperbags filled with books everyday.yea…hahaha…I was…umm…kinda geeky princess…ryte ema?
and if it wasn’t bad enuf I had the geek title…boys started saying that I look like a man and I had a sex operation.LIKE OMG!i was like…do I really?and then i thought I could ran to my “friends” and kinda let it all out…but by then,the bad shit already spreaded to them and they to were callin me a shemale!...and I didn’t like scream or stood up for myself.in fact,I laughed it off and crack jokes about myself that I had a hiden penis and all.
I went home, crying…..
I felt werse and werse everyday.when boys started callin me that in front of them,da clique wud laugh too…suckish.but I didn dare speak up.
and then came the second occasion when I had my menses.apparently it kinda overflowed and it stained the chair,my best friend,rafee…cudn do much cus he was a guy…although he did try to calm me down..but the girls I thought were real friends just thought that I was a chore and didn really wanna help me,instead…they went like…we’d wait for u downstairs….but I was fortunate to have one friend…she stood by me and help me to clean the mess I made.
afta the whole scary ordeal,she asked…does your friendship with your friends work that way?
I didn noe how to answer her….
and I finally came to a realisation that being with them didn make me feel beautiful.it made me feel smaller about myself.i was living in their shadow…and I was sharing their limelight.if people knew me it wasn’t because I was somebody but it was because I was with them.and It hit me that whatever decisions I had made wasn’t utterly because I wanted to do it.it was to please them.i wanted them to know that I could be like them…they must have thought I was a freak….

oh well,I grew out of it and I got a new found confidence thanks to my boyfriend and the support of my true friends.ironically,the clique are still friends with me..gud pals…gud girlfriends.i guessed…we all mature over a period time and we value friendship more right?emma,shira,izyan(I miss you girl…I cn’t seem to reach u),ili,shikin,rinnie….we’ve grown up a lil and we’ve got our own stand and point of view..and wani,thanks for being my wondergirl wen I had my menses…its all in the past now…and its kinda funny thinkin back ryte peeps?

but not everytink works well like the way it did for me…if you are stuck in a clique..here are some tips for you to just get out of it and not be a dumb dumb sheep…
1)firstly,you gotta tell yourself that you are special.yes2…say it..chant it!

2)go to school bare-faced.no mascara no compact and then tell them that their makeup makes their face look grey.(with an innocent face)

3)read a guwd book during recess and chew on an apple.
it gets you away from their crappy gossips and if they tease you on why you’re eatin an apple…tell them 2 apples per day…gives a better body and better skin.if they’re unsure…ask them to read my blog!

4)when schools done,tell them u need to rush off.enrol urself to belly dancing or aerobics…u’d make new friends.

5)lastly,tell them u find that its childish being in a clique and not having your own stand.tell them they’re a bunch of mean,ugly,oily-face girls whu depend on makeup everyday to cover those big ugly scars……
(if they beat you up,call the teacher…I cnt help you with that!hahaha)

I’ve uploaded some pictures of myself…why don’t you tell me and comment whether I look like some she male or not??feast…

credits to my b.f-tank u pumpkin for being patient and suportin me!ur the photgrapher for the day!
sweet revenge,
asha the geeky princess