ASHA LOVE PROFILE 3:MY SECRETS TO WINNING THAT DATE(FOR THA SINGLES!)
Sunday, September 9, 2007 // 8:32 PM
HOW TO READ BODY LANGUAGE??
when communicating is concerned,body language is important.that goes to flirting to...soo if you wanna be in the game,make sure you noe the rules.
to show you're interested:
*face or point in the direction of your date.obviously this will come naturally if you ARE interested in your date.
*lean towards him when making an important point in the conversation.
*sit with one leg crossed over the other,but point your knees towards him.
*look intensely into his eyes when he talks,not at the rest of the people in the restaurant.
*lightly brush against his sleeve or arm every soo often,making it look unintentional.
signs he's definitely INTERESTED:
*His voice goes soft and he stares straight into your eyes when he talks to you.
*he sneaks a glance at you from across the room while you're both in conversation with other people.
*his eyes get soft when he looks at you.
*he watches your lips when you talk.
*his friends start asking you what you think of him.
*his eyes travel in a circle around your face and finish off at your eyes.
*he behaves differently around you.if he's usually loud,he gets uncharacteristically soft spoken around you.
*he remembers the minute things you talk about in previous conversations,things you can hardly remember saying.
*when talkin in a group,his voice changes ever soo slightly.
what to avoid eating!!!
Darlins,in your date includes a meal,kindly steer clear from foods that can ruin ur image.please,maintain your glamourr..
SEAWEED
sticks to your teeth like velcro and they're dark and conspicous!soo,no temaki rolls ayte!
CORNCOB
there's never a pretty way to eat this.and when those fibrous kernels get stuck in between your teeth...
LAKSA
the gravy splatters on your face and your outfit,the green parsley garnishing may well find a home in between your teeth.
MESSY PASTAS
long strand pastas like spagetti,linguine,fettucine and tangliatelle require a deft hand with a spoon and fork.urgh!not forgetting those messy tomato and squid ink sauces!
SPINACH
this vegetable whether baked,boiled,fried or steamed-is a no-no for dates!trust me!
CHOCOLATES AND STRAWBERRIES
aphrodisiac or not,these foods are ohh soo sexy...until you smile!
RAW GARLIC AND ONIONS
oh,the breath,ladies,the breath!not to mention a bloated mid-section an hour later.
5 stay fresh tips
fresh looking makeup is the best accesory on a date.no point spendin tons of hours dollin up and you're goin to wilt before dessert is served.
1)pick a foundation that compliments your skin type.water-based foundations for those with oily skin(to avoid lookin grey and greasy when night is up)foundation with emollient content for dry skin(to prevent skin from lookin dry and crinkly)
2)to make eye makeup stay put,apply a touch of concealer(or an eyeshadow base) before liner or shadow to help colour stay put.
3)go easy on the base though,or eye makeup might very well crease.
4)to avoid premature smudging,apply eyeshadow only on the lids,not between the crease and brow bones.
5)eyeliner should be topped with a powder shadow in a similar shade,applied with a skinny angled brush.alternatively,try liquid liner.
biggest dating mistakes women make!!!
1)TRYING TO HARD
if the chemistry isn't there darl,it means it isn't.you'll only make yourself look idiotic cause u laughed/giggled/talked to much.besides why should YOU be compensating for the lack of spark?its his problem that he doesn't warm up to a babe like you.
2)OD-ING ON BOOZE
using a lil alchohol to loosen up on a date is fine but goin "hic" throughout it is a bad etiquette.think sips,not swigs.if he's gonna send you home looking like a rag doll,he's gonna lose respect for you.
3)ACTING ALL PHONY
yes,follow that old age advice-being yourself never fails.
c'mon girls,TALK in a NORMAL ACCENT,wear your hair in the way that's most comfortable for you,slip into flats if 3inch heels make you walk like julia roberts.
THERE'S ONLY ONE OF YOU-use that to your advantage.
4)TALKIN NON STOP ABOUT SEX
its a natural and sizzling topic to venture to,but if you avoid the topic altogether,the un-verbalised sexual tension will have him fantasising about you after the date,and in his sleep,and tomorrow....
love,asha (tha flirt guru)
