Asha

SEXAYEEE LINGERIE SHOPPING..A GURL'S ULTIMATE SURVIVAL GUIDE!

Monday, July 30, 2007 // 4:23 PM

Always thought lingerie shopping only belonged to those who were married or attached?
SOOOOO NOT ladies!im gonna show you how and why....
first and for most...
it doesn't realli matter if you don't have anybody to flaunt your lingerie to or whether you need to have a boyfriend or tha ultimate body or booty...
ALL IT TAKES IS SELF APPRECIATION AND LOVE TOWARDS YOURSELF AND YOUR BODY.
Think of it as,self indulgence..like if you can spent a few thousands on stuff with labels just to show-off,why not splurge on lingerie once in a while to make you feel good about yourself and boosting your self esteem(face it girls,even major hollywood stars lack self esteem,thats when botox and surgeries come in handy)

i went lingerie shopping with ema the other day,and i've gathered some tips on how to get the lingerie which you won't regret later on...ema mentioned that it was her first time...and i realised it might be soo too for others..so step out ladies.WE ARE GOIN SHOPPING!!!!!:):):)

LETS GET SEXAYE LADIESSS
tip no 1
do your research
lets get to the basics,
firstly,you need to know your favourite colours and the type of lingerie you prefer.some of us absolutely love garters,lacey panties and push up bras whereas some would rather go for that sweet babydoll flirty dresses with furry slippers??my personal preference?actually a little bit of both.ahahaha.
example:
fav colour:baby pink
preference:sweet and flirty lingerie
CHECK!

tip no 2
ask you,yourself and just you!
you spotted a sexaye model wearin a black leather corset in the mags and you wish that it was you.reality check,are you really willing to wear it?
or are you turning your wadrobe into a costume shop?take my advice,some lingerie are to ridiculous to wear.and unless you're making a porn video,neva ever step into a sex shop to buy lingerie.
also,are you uncomfortable with wearin to little clothes at night or at home??even when theres nobody?you might want to get a silk robe or wrap along with the underwear just in case you need to get something from the kitchen and your next door neighbour is lazin by his kitchen window.undesirable situation.
example:
black leather corsets:NONONO
silk robe/wrap:might come in handy
CHECK!

tip no 3
know your size,and your type
estimate your underwear size,if u suck at estimation,bring along one of you comfortable panties(in good condition of course)to see if it is the right fit.and ya,based on experience.keep your panty u brought from home safe in a small bag.you wouldn't want it hanging like a keychain without you knowing.do not depend on sizes s,m,l...cause different labels carry different measurements.some are measurements of europeans which are naturally bigger than us.and please stop thinkin that xxs or xs is the ideal size for you.unless you're really small.must i emphasise on this?CURVES ARE GREAT.BIG BOOTY?THINK BEYONCE!
Know your bra cup size.measure it if you must to.if you are unsure get ur mum or the sales assistant to assist you.never insist on somthing to small or to big.it is unhealthy for your breasts.if you are trying on a bra,see at the sides on whether there is excess flesh seeping out,that means its to small.if your tootsies hang low and gives minimal support,it might be to big.
lastly,know your body type.though we wished that we all looked like a victorias secret model,all of us come in different shapes and sizes.some of us are pear shape,petitie,masculine,thin and a little flabby at the tummy.it is OK!besides,all those models you see in those mags,their pictures are air-brushed.
so the rule here is.
BUY ITEMS THAT ENCHANCE YOUR FIGURE NOT ITEMS YOU WISHED YOU LOOKED GOOD IN IT.
example:
underwear size:bring my fav undie along!
bra cup size:34c
body type:a little meaty all over
lingerie should be able:to hide a little of that unecessary flesh,a slimmer contour.
CHECK!

tip no 4
shoppin like theres no tomorrow
now that you know your basics,we can hit the malls with no slightest worry.overcome your shyness or fear that the sales girls would laugh at you.they know why we buy lingerie.even young girls like us.
as you browse and scan through the items in the shop.you come to a realisation that lingerie could be heavy on your pocket.but ladies,don't walk out of the shop yet,think how it would help you feel good when your'e having a bad day.or when you suddenly wake up in the morning feeling sexy and free?dancing in your living room in sexy lingerie!
while some of us would go astray on buying what looks hot!...id rather you stick to your list and spare a thought on your body wearin that super tight leather bustier with pantyhose.you be sweaty and smelly just 5 mins after putting it on.
the trick is.the more comfortable the lingerie,the sexier you feel.try opting for softer fabrics instead like satin,silk n expensive laces. touch the fabrics of the peice you are considering.anything to UNCOMFORTABLE is a NONO.
though some materials may look sexy...they might be scratchy to your skin.still sexy??no!leather might look sexy,but singapore is a tropical country and if its not bad enough,we are living in the global warming crisis..PONDER!

tip no 5
if all else fails and asha's tips suck!
go online.lotsa brands sell sexy lingerie.trust my fashion taste.
victoria's secret is affordable...
agent provocateur if ur a rich kid...
but my ultimate advice is,step out of the cocoon dear,all of us deserves to
feel sexy.its not weird.if your galfrens tease you,don't be alarmed that they're be your follower in just....a few moments.:)

really hope that you're unleashing tha sexaye you by now,
if you're clueless on where to get tasteful lingerie.for starters, try blush or la senza which is located at paragon.la senza is having their clearance seasonal sale.or try fling at the heeren..
GOOD LUCK BABES!

tons of sexaye kisses,
asha(mysteriously sexayeee)
(n still mysterious.....)

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