LOVE MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!! MORE OF MAKES MY HEAD SPIN ROUND AND ROUND!!!
Monday, May 14, 2007 // 7:21 PM
hey peeps,
recently me and my bf have been having lil quarrels and misunderstandins that were a lil moreeee...complicated than usual...
its near to 7 months of relationship and da fact is...its startin to sour a lil.AND I DUN WANT IT TO BE THAT WAY!!!ARGH!GOSH!
Yes,without denial..we do get bored with our partners at some point of time...and somehow i always tend to think that i gotta perservere...but when im unhappy in the inside????
soo...i asked some of my friends to help me(credits to all of you!)
and it has made me realise that both me n my bf have alot of catching up to do and understanding...
from HIM to HER
what the boys need from us:
.LOTSA LOVE
.LOTSA SUPPORT
.UNDERSTANDING
.DEDICATION
.HONESTY
.SINCERITY
.LISTENIN EAR
.A FUN AND ENJOYABLE COMPANION
.COMFORT
.WORDS OF ENCOURAGEMENT
.COMPANY
outa all...i tink i scored..about a 5/8....am i fun girlfriend pumpkin?i hope i am...ahakz!
from HIM to HER
what the boys hate about us:
.TO SEE THEIR GIRLFRIENDS OUT WITH OTHER GUYS
.LYING!!!!!!(ALOTTTT OF GUYS GAVE ME TIS REASON,WHAT DO WE LIE ABOUT...I WONDER..........)
.DATES OTHER GUYS
.ALWAYS PICKING FIGHTS AND INSIST BEING THE RIGHT ONE (ENDING UP CRYING,EXPECTIN THE GUY TO GIVE IN WHEN HE'S DONE NUTIN)
.GOES AGAINST HIS DREAMS
my friend has a qn to guyss out dere....
DA QN:
why do guys always associate girls clubbin with girls throwin themselves to guys... when the girls mean nutin and jus wanna have harmless fun????
from HER to HIM
what we need from you...
.LOVE,LOTSA2 THEM...
.SECURITY (funny eh, we will forever feel insecure even when our boyfriends tells us they love us...its just...uncertainty that can sometimes drive a guy crazy!!!!hahaha)
.ATTENTION
.UNDERSTANDING(do u realise that even before we tell our boyfriends our probs and werrys,he'll tell us to stop cryin,and that its a small matter n he understands...when in true fact...we haven told him our probs!)
.LOYALTY
.HONESTY
.TO SHOW!!!AND I MEAN SHOW!!!U LOVE US!!
from HER to HIM
what we dislike and fear...
.CHEATING!!!
.SLEEPING AROUND
.WHEN A BF APPARENTLY TREATS OTHER GIRLS BETTER THAN HIS OWN GIRLFRIEND
.BETRAYAL OF TRUST
.PRETENDING TO LOVE US WHEN UR SOO NOT..ONLY WITH THE EXCUSE THAT U DUN WANNA HURT OUR LIL WEAK HEARTS!!!
.BEING PRESSURISED INTO DOING SOMETHING WE DO NOT WANT TO DO
.DOESN APPREACIATE US FOR WHO WE ARE..ASKIN US TO CHANGE BASED ON HIS PREFERENCE.LIKEEE....TELLIN ME I NEED TO LOSE WEIGHT!
.BEING JUDGEMENTAL(NO MATTER HOW WRONG WE ARE...TELL US ANOTHER DAY...CAUSE WEN WE ARE CRYIN,WE WANNA HEAR THAT WE ARE RIGHT!!)
hmm....soo mabe i didn quite understand what was goin thru his mind...n he didn quite knew how i felt to about the relationship...hey pumpkin....im truly sorry yeah..
I wana let u know that i love you....alot...thanks for takin me on a date...to the zoo!!!sent me those pics ayte...and ya,happy birthday big boy!!!muahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!
lotsa love...
asha your dorfus gorillabutt
p.s:the other dae me and wani wen to town bare faced!and hell yea...it felt great and light!!!and it unleashed a whole lot of confidence...esp when u c the oda girls sweatin like hell and how their makeup melted!!!!u should try...it was a lil scary at first...but yea!!!it fwelt good afta tat,ryte wani!!!!
